Friday, October 5, 2012

Can God Heal Autism?

This Devotion was inspired by Hillsong’s Healer. Click the link to see it on Youtube.    

My son has autism.

What does that mean? It means he has a cluster of developmental delays that make him less functional in society without someone’s help.

It started out as a language delay. We didn’t panic at first becauscommunicatione this type of delay ran on both sides of our family. Those members who’d suffered it were currently either financially well off or verbally advanced, so we waited for my son to do the same. His physical delays were less apparent. They ebbed and flowed with each test. Sometimes on target, sometimes behind. His social-skills remained above age level.

We’d hoped the language would fill in one day as it had for others we’d known. But it didn’t. So, I looked into therapies and treatments and supplements to make him well. And I prayed. No, this is not one of stormsthose stories where I came to God as a last resort. We were together on this one from the beginning. He kept me calm through the storms, though some of the storms were of my own making.

But what does one pray for as the mother of an autistic boy? The right assistance? The right therapy to fix him? Or out-and-out healing? Which prayer demonstrates the appropriate level of faith (you know, moving mountains and all that) and which prayer embodies humility, understanding the sovereignty of God’s will (His grace being sufficient)? I still don’t have the answer to that question so I pray them all.

God is BIG! Did you know that? He’s huge. And powerful! So I didn’t think it a bad thing to pray my son be healed. But it seems others did. When I asked them to pray for healing, they’d look at me with pity in their eyes as though they believed my faith hinged on the discontinuation of his diagnosis. It made me sad. Sad they thought so little of me and worse they thought so little of God.

I had an acquaintance whose non-verbal eleven-year-old began to speak after 6 weeks of treatment with a research doctor. I prayermet her the week I’d been fasting and praying for answers. But what made her story amazing is that she also had a team of people covering her son in prayer every day of that treatment. We now go to this same doctor and have gotten great benefit from the treatment, just not like hers. I could never find a group of people willing to pray big things. They worried more about me than they did my son.

Sigh!

Don’t get me wrong. I am not of the name-it and claim-it church. God doesn’t always give us exactly what we want, when we want it. Though Paul healed many, he writes of those who remained sick. He, himself, carried a thorn that was a reminder of God’s beautiful Grace. All, but one, apostle was martyred for Christ. Sometimes bad things happen and God shows His greatness in spite of, or even because of, those things.

God has blessed me in so many ways through the gentle gift of my beautiful boy. This young man shows love and concern like no other without uttering a word. Truly living his gift rather than just speaking it. He’s grown my daughter in enormous ways that she’d never have known had she had a “normal” brother. He brings me peace with just a gentle touch of his fingers. I am blessed.

One of the words my son can say is “pray.” And he knows when to say it. He is the one to remind me to seek my Creator in time of need. He’s recently begun to say it often throughout the day. So I do. I pray for his healing. Not because I think God WILL heal my son, but because I KNOW He CAN. It is my testament of faith in His power. And still, I know He is not only omnipotent, but omniscient. He knows what is best for me and my son’s ministry for His Glory. He has a better plan than I can even imagine, and it just may include autism. I submit to that plan.

He is Good!

Mark 9:14-29

Oh, and if you are so inclined, feel free to pray for my son. I won’t mind :o)!!! Let me know and I will return the favor—Comment below.

Other posts you might like:

Jake The Encourager—by H.L. Wegley

Signs of God

Eleven Days Past Autism Awareness Month

30 comments:

  1. Connie, you're a beautiful, loving mom for wanting the best for you son. I was so touched that out of all the words in the human language that your son can say the word pray. I will be praying for him, and for you. May His love continue to reach your son, and may your son's love continue to reach out to you and others.

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  2. Thank you so much, Elaine. It is amazing that "pray" is among his few words. If this were his only gift (which it surely is not) it would have infinite impact. Too many see those with special needs as having somehow less value than those who have high IQs. But you can probably guess, I do not. Some seemingly small things have great result. Prayer is one of those things!!! And my son is all over that.

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  3. I will pray for u n ur son. Please pray 4 me n my wife and son Matthew. I truely believe God will heal our sons.

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    1. I am praying and will pray for you, your wife and your son Matthew. Your son has a wonderful name. It means "gift of God." I pray for healing. I pray he will become all of the gift God has meant him to be. Blessings from my heart!!!

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  4. Chaplain Thomas WagnerMarch 9, 2013 at 4:22 PM

    Praying for your son!

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    1. Thank you so much. It is greatly appreciated!!!

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  5. Connie, please listen to this from Charles Stanley. It is the March 13 and 14 sermons titled "An Awesome Privilege - Part 1" and part 2. I think it will help you and any issues there are with prayer. http://www.intouch.org/Broadcast/AudioArchives.aspx

    ~Aaron

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    1. Thank you, Aaron. I just spent an hour listening to these. I’d encourage others to do the same—especially part two. The meat of the issue, as with what we are talking about in this post, is that prayer is FIRST about fellowship with Him—Amen! And that covers over everything else. Really!!! Additionally, He always answers in the affirmative when what we ask is GOOD in His loving and omniscient Will. Through my prayers on this issue, I’ve found both very true!

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  6. tope&waleApril 2, 2013 at 6:05 PM

    I love your piece and I am praying for you. We have a beautiful son, he is 2yrs 9 months, he has symptoms of Autism, but I believe that God is at work to rid his system of every trace of autism. I strongly believe that God's will is healing and that it is the devil that sits at the root of sickness. Jesus healed so many because He has compassion for sick people. the question is, if I took my son to Jesus, will He heal him? I believe He will. I believe God heals today and He wants to heal more. I pray that we all find healing for our kids and for ourselves

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    1. Amen! I will pray for your son also. God will bless you through him.

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  7. God sent to me an angel,
    it had a broken wing.
    I bent my head and wondered
    “How could God do such a thing?”
    When I asked the Father
    why He sent this child to me,
    the answer was forthcoming,
    He said “Listen and you’ll see.”
    “My children are all precious,
    and none is like the rest.
    Each one to me is special,
    and the least is as the best.
    I send each one from Heaven
    and I place it in the care
    of those who know my mercy,
    those with love to spare.
    Sometimes I take them back again.
    Sometimes I let them stay.
    No matter what may happen
    I am never far away.
    So if you find an angel
    and you don’t know what to do,
    remember, I am with you,
    love is all I ask of you.”

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    1. Beautiful! Thank you!!! I love what Paul says in one of his letters about the members of the Body we think are weaker--They are indispensable!!!

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  8. Hi Connie, I have a daughter with autism who is making a slow recovery. Similar to others here I see the will of God revealed in the life of Jesus who went about healing people wherever he went. You may find help and encouragement from the ministries and testimonies associated with people like Randy Clark (Global Awakening) and Ian Andrews (Citadel). God bless you and your family, Des

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  9. Thank you, Des. I'll look into those resources. Also, know I'm praying for your daughter that she becomes all of what God has planned for her. And Him being a Master Craftsman, I know it will be beautiful.

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  10. Thank you God for giving me a son with autism. I know you are in control of the situation. I will not give up. I will keep fighting. Thank you God.

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    1. And thank you Lord for your steadfastness, love and Joy through all situations.

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  11. i have a brother who has autism and im kind of losing faith for he is 16 years old!! my family is waiting idk wat to do..

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    1. Hi.
      I know sometimes it feels like God is not there when we’re struggling. I know I’ve felt that way many times in my life. That’s why my favorite verse in the Bible is Psalm 77:3 “I remembered You, O God, and I groaned.” I found solace in the idea that a Psalmist charged with the writing of God’s Words also wanted to forget Him, but in the end, remained true. Maybe the same can happen for me as well. Don’t know if that sounds crazy, but it’s how I think.
      When we experience hard times, we are always tempted to walk away from Him because He isn’t doing what we want. But these are the times we need Him MOST. He is our refuge and strength. He is the shoulder to cry on. He’s the ear to listen. He knows us better than anyone else and loves us in spite of all He knows. Cry out to Him as the Psalmists do. Let Him be the shepherd who leads you to quiet waters and restores your soul (Psalm 23). His power is made perfect in our weaknesses.
      I will pray for you and your family. May you see glimpses of God in your life today.
      If you’d like to tell me about your brother, feel free to email me. It’s in the “contact me” tab. I’d love to hear more.

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  12. I found this prayer on the internet: "Dear Father, forgive me and my nation for our sins. We have failed to look to You for help with this disorder called autism. Forgive us. I pray that You will lead us to find a cure for autism. Lord, You made us, You know each cell of our body, You know where autism originates, You know what goes wrong in people with autism, You know what will cure this disorder. Lord I pray for a miraculous cure for all children with autism. Please give families strength to deal with autism. Give them wisdom and help them find people who will truly help them and not take advantage of them. Lord, I pray also that You would lead researchers to find a cure for autism. Help the researchers to be humble, to seek You, to understand the connections between the physical, biological, chemical, and immunological findings in autism research. Open their eyes to find new connections and help parents to share their own discoveries and findings. Let there be a new cooperation among the researchers that will lead to a true cure for all autism. I give You the glory for this cure. Thank You, Lord, for hearing my prayer. Thank You, Lord, for having mercy on the thousands of children with autism. I pray this prayer in the name of Jesus Christ, my Savior. Amen." ~GJH~

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  13. There is a video on youtube called: Autism made in the U.S.A
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=smywi4NjigU
    This was the answer God led me to, when I asked why my son has autism.

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    1. This video talks about the autism debate and what causes it. Very controversial, but needs to be looked at with fresh, unbiased eyes. I’ve read much on this debate and do not feel I have any one answer. In fact, I don’t think there is any ONE answer. My own belief is that each kid has a combination of factors that have caused it and no one child is impacted by the same exact combination. That’s what makes it so hard to pin it down in research. However, much needs to be looked into and we need to be careful not to assume that just because one doctor has ruled something out that it can’t be implicated. Much prayer and research needs to be done!!! Thank you for sharing this link. My son’s doctor is in this video.

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  14. You make good points Connie.

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  15. Dear Carol,

    Just read your post. And You are correct God is bigger than Autism, Thank you for believing in God

    I have been having a lot of success in healing, and I want to share with you my findings. Here are the scriptures that I am basing it on.

    Mark 16:17-18
    These signs will follow those who believe, in my name they will cast out demons.….they will lay hands on the sick, and they shall recover.
    This is Jesus tell us what to do before he went back to heaven.
    Those WHO BELIEVE. If you believe in Jesus, this is YOU.
    In JESUS name, YOU will lay hands on the sick, and they shall recover
    Matt 10:7-8
    As you go proclaim this message , The kingdom of heaven has come near, heal the sick, raise the dead, cleanse those who have leprosy, drive out demons….
    Luke 10:9
    Heal the sick who are there and tell them “The Kingdom of God has come near to you”
    If you read the bible, apart from James 5:15-16. There is no where in the bible that tells you to “pray for the sick”. It tells us to “heal the sick.”

    So instead of praying to the Father for healing, God has already provided that authority to you in the name of Jesus. It is God’s will that you go out and administer the healing. God is our father, and it clearly says, an earthly father will not give the child a snake when he ask for fish. Ask yourself, as a parent would you want to see your kid showing symptoms of autism? NO! then neither does the father in heaven!

    Autism, like Cancer is the works of the devil John 10:10, its purpose is to kill, steal and destroy. Jesus came to give life, and life abundantly.

    It is very simple. This is what you do.
    You speak to the problem (Autism), think of it as a demon, . And you command it to do what you want it to do. Which is leave. You say this in Jesus name. And you will see changes. The key is you believe God’s word, word for word. And you are meaning what you say, and you have a focused intention when you talk to autism, when you are commanding it. Settle it in your mind. God,s word says, Believers in Jesus name will cast out demons, heal the sick with the laying on of hands. And hence it will happen. If the Problem is fighting it. You just keep at it. It has to go. Autism knows it, the body knows it. They all know who Jesus is.

    So, you take your son, and you say in faith that what you say will happen, and you do it with expectation because God’s word is true.
    In Jesus name, Autism I command you to let go of (your son), I command you to Leave now in Jesus name! Check for things that he was not able to do before, and ask him to do it. And then keep commanding Autism to go.

    So Carol, let me know how it goes, As you see the changes, you will have more faith that God is not a God of talks, he follows through on his words. I have other scriptures and materials that can help you understand, and hence bring the healing that God wants on his children. Healing is in the atonement, like Salvation, God wants to co-labor with us to bring the good news to the world.

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  16. Some might have seen this video.
    Carly Fleischmann

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vNZVV4Ciccg

    IF you view it in this light. Our children needs to be set free from the bondage that they are in.

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    1. This video reminds me of one I'd seen years ago. One reason why I assume there is more going on inside my son than could be thought from his behavior. Yes, they are in bondage to this disorder. I will pray my son be set free.

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  17. THANK YOU ALBERT FOR SHARING THAT INFORMATION. JESUS CHRIST IS GOD.

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  18. Yes Albert. Thank you for this. I'll be looking at the video and praying!

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  19. Albert I wanted to share with you that last night, I did what you recommended; I order autism out of my son in the name of Jesus Christ. This morning, my son woke up crying, he had not done that in a while. The first thing that came to my mind was spiritual warfare. So I laid my hand on my son, and commanded autism to leave my son's body. He finally calms down and was relaxed. Today was the first time ever that he plays with me, tossing the ball, back and forth for about 5 minutes. I know, what you said is true. God (Jesus Christ) is curing my son right before my eyes. Thank you for sharing that with us. And thank you God (Jesus Christ) for your love.

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